Time Tracking – How to Find Out Where All Your Time is Going

November 18, 2017

My scripture for this week is from The Book of Mormon in 2 Nephi 9:51

Part of this verse reads, “…do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy.” As you may know, we Wagners are working hard to become debt free in the next 2 years, so obviously, we’re trying not to spend any money for that which is of no worth. But what about the second half of that sentence? I’ve been pondering that today. When am I spending my labor on that which cannot satisfy? Have you ever gotten distracted, maybe by technology, by the mail, by a mess that doesn’t really matter, etc? It happens to me every day. But I didn’t actually know how much I was spending my time on that which does not satisfy; activities that make me scratch my head and wonder where my day has gone. So, my husband, Seth, and I watched this life changing TED Talk by time expert Laura Vanderkam. It’s only about 10 minutes long, and I feel like it has given me control of my life. Vanderkam has given me the tools that I needed to direct my time so that I can create the life want. I hope it can help you too.

After you watch Laura’s talk, you can go to her website, lauravanderkam.com/ SUBSCRIBE and get a FREE Time Makeover Guide and Time Sheet so you can track your time and create the life you want according to what you value most!

Lets use our time in ways that we will look back at the end of each week and feel satisfied.


How I Found 40 Extra Hours in My Week!

November 17, 2017

Hey People!

I don’t have time to reinvent the wheel, and it wouldn’t be worth it anyways. So instead of creating a podcast episode about this, I’ll give you my favorite 3 highlights from the “Afford Anything” Podcast and send you to the resources that inspired me! Laura Vanderkam is an amazing time management guru, and she is revolutionizing our life so that we can CREATE the life we want! (instead of feeling like victims that are too busy to do the things we want to do. It’s all about priorities. And it’s going to take some practice….a lot of practice, but I think in the course of a couple months, we will be able to truly harness our time in the same way we’ve harness our finances. If you tell your money what to do, it will do it! It’s the same concept with time. If you tell it what to do, then your time doesn’t happen to you anymore; you happen to your time! The first step is to find out where your time is actually going. Here are my favorite gems from Laura in this episode of Afford Anything, “Why You’re Not As Busy As You Think”

“How we think we spend our time has very little relation to how we actually spend our time.”

“There is no 11:00pm home inspection. No one is coming to your house at night and making sure everything is up off the floor [giving] you points for this. ‘cuz it’s just gonna come out again the next morning. Those toys are going to come right back out, but you will never get that time back. So just let it be. Let it sit there.”

Give yourself some grace. “No one can be completely efficient 100% of the time.”

If you find yourself getting distracted, less efficient, etc. TAKE A BREAK! “If you don’ t take a real break your brain will take a fake one.”





I’m so excited that I have 168 hours in my week! And so do you! We all do! And I’ve found that if I start living more intentionally than I’ve ever lived before, I’ll have 40 more hours in my week to use the way I want to!  (More to come on what I want to do with that time 😉

#38: Why You’re Not As Busy As You Think, with Laura Vanderkam

Breaking the Cycle of Debt! – Episode 007

November 6, 2017

I’m back! This is a pretty informative podcast about what’s been going on in my life for the past couple months. We’re on a journey to freedom. Freedom from debt! In this episode you can hear all about it and learn how you can do it to. https://youtu.be/6gsGMoAV90s And please do take the time to watch this 10 minute video.  It will inspire you and fill you with hope!

The thought that inspires this podcast episode is this:

“We must want more than anything to change our lives so that we can BREAK THE CYCLE OF DEBT and uncontrolled wants.” from the talk,

Becoming Provident Providers Both Spiritually and Temporally

by Elder Robert D. Hales

Financial Peace University Class ($129 to change your life forever for the better!)

As soon as you purchase the class, you gain access to the class finder, and there are many classes going on all over the country, so you can find a class near you! (Or you can do the home study or online course).

For those of you in the Detroit Metro Area, there are Financial Peace University Classes coming up at:

Detroit World Outreach 23800 West Chicago Redford Charter Township, MI 48239 Starts Jan 25 Ends Mar 22 Thursdays 6:30pm


Evangelical Baptist Church 16994 Telegraph Road Taylor, MI 48180 Starts Jan 7 Ends Mar 4 Sundays 6:00pm

Total Money Makeover (the book, ebook or audio) is a very inexpensive way to learn Dave Ramsey’s principles

and you can also listen to the Dave Ramsey Show on the radio, on Itunes Podcast, in podcast archives or even watch it on YouTube (the Debt-Free Screams on YouTube are excellent! I try to watch one every day! It keeps me motivated and full of hope.)

Other references:

Malachi 3:10

and 3 Nephi 24:10



Becoming Provident Providers

November 6, 2017

Have you read this talk yet!? Elder Robert D. Hales, an apostle of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, was a very wise and gentle yet powerful person. He passed away last month, and I will miss hearing from him, but his words and message live on in my heart and in the hearts of many. This talk is truly inspiring. You can read it below in this post, or at this link, or you could just watch this very short video that summarizes the message. One of my very favorite quotes from this talk is:

 “I have learned that the three most loving words are “I love you,” and the four most caring words for those we love are “We can’t afford it.””

Becoming Provident Providers Both Spiritually and Temporally

Brothers and sisters, as did President Monson, our children are growing up in times of economic uncertainty. Just as our grandparents and great-grandparents learned vital lessons through economic adversity, what we learn now, in our present circumstances, can bless us and our posterity for generations to come.

Today I speak to all whose freedom to choose has been diminished by the effects of ill-advised choices of the past. I speak specifically of choices that have led to excessive debt and addictions to food, drugs, pornography, and other patterns of thought and action that diminish one’s sense of self-worth. All of these excesses affect us individually and undermine our family relationships. Of course some debt incurred for education, a modest home, or a basic automobile may be necessary to provide for a family. Unfortunately however, additional debt is incurred when we cannot control our wants and addictive impulses. And for both debt and addiction, the hopeful solution is the same—we must turn to the Lord and follow His commandments. We must want more than anything else to change our lives so that we can break the cycle of debt and our uncontrolled wants. I pray that in the next few minutes, and throughout this conference, you will be filled with hope in our Savior, Jesus Christ, and find hope in the doctrines of His restored gospel.

Our challenges, including those we create by our own decisions, are part of our test in mortality. Let me assure you that your situation is not beyond the reach of our Savior. Through Him, every struggle can be for our experience and our good (see D&C 122:7). Each temptation we overcome is to strengthen us, not destroy us. The Lord will never allow us to suffer beyond what we can endure (see 1 Corinthians 10:13).

We must remember that the adversary knows us extremely well. He knows where, when, and how to tempt us. If we are obedient to the promptings of the Holy Ghost, we can learn to recognize the adversary’s enticements. Before we yield to temptation, we must learn to say with unflinching resolve, “Get thee behind me, Satan” (Matthew 16:23).

Our success is never measured by how strongly we are tempted but by how faithfully we respond. We must ask for help from our Heavenly Father and seek strength through the Atonement of His Son, Jesus Christ. In both temporal and spiritual things, obtaining this divine assistance enables us to become provident providers for ourselves and others.

What is a provident provider?

All of us are responsible to provide for ourselves and our families in both temporal and spiritual ways. To provide providently, we must practice the principles of provident living: joyfully living within our means, being content with what we have, avoiding excessive debt, and diligently saving and preparing for rainy-day emergencies. When we live providently, we can provide for ourselves and our families and also follow the Savior’s example to serve and bless others.

Being provident providers, we must keep that most basic commandment, “Thou shalt not covet” (Exodus 20:17). Our world is fraught with feelings of entitlement. Some of us feel embarrassed, ashamed, less worthwhile if our family does not have everything the neighbors have. As a result, we go into debt to buy things we can’t afford—and things we do not really need. Whenever we do this, we become poor temporally and spiritually. We give away some of our precious, priceless agency and put ourselves in self-imposed servitude. Money we could have used to care for ourselves and others must now be used to pay our debts. What remains is often only enough to meet our most basic physical needs. Living at the subsistence level, we become depressed, our self-worth is affected, and our relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and the Lord are weakened. We do not have the time, energy, or interest to seek spiritual things.

How then do we avoid and overcome the patterns of debt and addiction to temporal, worldly things? May I share with you two lessons in provident living that can help each of us. These lessons, along with many other important lessons of my life, were taught to me by my wife and eternal companion. These lessons were learned at two different times in our marriage—both on occasions when I wanted to buy her a special gift.

The first lesson was learned when we were newly married and had very little money. I was in the air force, and we had missed Christmas together. I was on assignment overseas. When I got home, I saw a beautiful dress in a store window and suggested to my wife that if she liked it, we would buy it. Mary went into the dressing room of the store. After a moment the salesclerk came out, brushed by me, and returned the dress to its place in the store window. As we left the store, I asked, “What happened?” She replied, “It was a beautiful dress, but we can’t afford it!” Those words went straight to my heart. I have learned that the three most loving words are “I love you,” and the four most caring words for those we love are “We can’t afford it.”

The second lesson was learned several years later when we were more financially secure. Our wedding anniversary was approaching, and I wanted to buy Mary a fancy coat to show my love and appreciation for our many happy years together. When I asked what she thought of the coat I had in mind, she replied with words that again penetrated my heart and mind. “Where would I wear it?” she asked. (At the time she was a ward Relief Society president helping to minister to needy families.)

Then she taught me an unforgettable lesson. She looked me in the eyes and sweetly asked, “Are you buying this for me or for you?” In other words, she was asking, “Is the purpose of this gift to show your love for me or to show me that you are a good provider or to prove something to the world?” I pondered her question and realized I was thinking less about her and our family and more about me.

After that we had a serious, life-changing discussion about provident living, and both of us agreed that our money would be better spent in paying down our home mortgage and adding to our children’s education fund.

These two lessons are the essence of provident living. When faced with the choice to buy, consume, or engage in worldly things and activities, we all need to learn to say to one another, “We can’t afford it, even though we want it!” or “We can afford it, but we don’t need it—and we really don’t even want it!”

There is an equally important principle underlying these lessons: we can learn much from communicating with our husbands and wives. As we counsel and work together in family councils, we can help each other become provident providers and teach our children to live providently as well.

The foundation of provident living is the law of the tithe. The primary purpose of this law is to help us develop faith in our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Tithing helps us overcome our desires for the things of this world and willingly make sacrifices for others. Tithing is the great equitable law, for no matter how rich or poor we are, all of us pay the same one-tenth of our increase annually (see D&C 119:4), and all of us receive blessings so great “that there shall not be room enough to receive [them]” (Malachi 3:10).

In addition to our tithes, we should also be an example with the payment of fast offerings. A fast offering is at least the cost of the two consecutive meals from which we fast each month. By not eating these two meals, we draw close to the Lord in humility and prayer and also participate in anonymous giving to bless our brothers and sisters all over the world.

Another important way we help our children learn to be provident providers is by establishing a family budget. We should regularly review our family income, savings, and spending plan in family council meetings. This will teach our children to recognize the difference between wants and needs and to plan ahead for meaningful use of family resources.

When our boys were young, we had a family council and set a goal to take a “dream vacation” down the Colorado River. When any of us wanted to buy something during the next year, we would ask each other, “Do we really want to buy that thing now, or do we want to take our dream trip later?” This was a wonderful teaching experience in choosing provident living. By not satisfying our every immediate want, we obtained the more desirable reward of family togetherness and fond memories for years to come.

Whenever we want to experience or possess something that will impact us and our resources, we may want to ask ourselves, “Is the benefit temporary, or will it have eternal value and significance?” Truthfully answering these questions may help us avoid excessive debt and other addictive behavior.

In seeking to overcome debt and addictive behaviors, we should remember that addiction is the craving of the natural man, and it can never be satisfied. It is an insatiable appetite. When we are addicted, we seek those worldly possessions or physical pleasures that seem to entice us. But as children of God, our deepest hunger and what we should be seeking is what the Lord alone can provide—His love, His sense of worth, His security, His confidence, His hope in the future, and assurance of His love, which brings us eternal joy.

We must want, more than anything else, to do our Heavenly Father’s will and providently provide for ourselves and others. We must say, as did King Lamoni’s father, “I will give away all my sins to know thee” (Alma 22:18). Then we can go to Him with steadfast determination and promise Him, “I will do whatever it takes.” Through prayer, fasting, obedience to the commandments, priesthood blessings, and His atoning sacrifice, we will feel His love and power in our lives. We will receive His spiritual guidance and strength through the promptings of the Holy Ghost. Only through our Lord’s Atonement can we obtain a mighty change of heart (see Mosiah 5:2Alma 5:14) and experience a mighty change in our addictive behavior.

With all the love I have in me and with the Savior’s love through me, I invite you to come unto Him and hear His words: “Wherefore, do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy. Hearken diligently unto me, and remember the words which I have spoken; and come unto the Holy One of Israel, and feast upon that which perisheth not, neither can be corrupted” (2 Nephi 9:51).

I testify that the appetite to possess worldly things can only be overcome by turning to the Lord. The hunger of addiction can only be replaced by our love for Him. He stands ready to help each one of us. “Fear not,” He said, “for you are mine, and I have overcome the world” (D&C 50:41).

I bear my special witness that through the Atonement He has overcome all things. May each of us also overcome worldly temptation by coming unto Him and by becoming provident providers both temporally and spiritually for ourselves and others is my humble prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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Thank You! $590 Raised! More than 19 People Will Receive Access to Clean Water!

October 30, 2017

Thank you to all who donated to my CHARITY WATER Birthday Campaign! Because of you, more than 19 people will gain access to clean water! What a beautiful gift to give. And thank you to you all for your understanding and patience during my hiatus. I’ve been taking care of some family matters for the last couple months, and trying to be more present and available to the people I love the most. And sometimes that means putting personal pursuits on hold. Trying to save the world while neglecting the needs of my own family is no good indeed. So I’m trying to put my priorities in order, looking after my overall personal health, my family relationships and responsibilities, and then personal endeavors. Things have been falling into place much better, and I’m hoping to get podcasting again sometime within the next month or so. Until then, get out there and make some hope! (Start with yourself, then your family, and then reach out to others 🙂

I’m Donating My 31st Birthday With Hopes for 31 People to Have Clean Water – Episode 006

August 21, 2017

oneyellowfinch.com/6 – Water is an essential human need, yet 1 in 10 people do not have access to clean water. In this episode, learn with me how we can change that. I’m donating my 31st birthday this year to try to raise $930 so that 31 people can drink clean water for the first time in their lives. Donate Here: my.charitywater.org/emily-wagner/making-hope-for-31-people-with-emily

I have enough stuff, plenty of stuff, actually TOO much stuff! And I don’t need any more things. (And if you were already contemplating buying me a birthday present, or even buying me a birthday card for $3.10; please reconsider. Please give whatever you would have spent on providing the means for Charity: Water to change someone’s life forever. And if you weren’t thinking about giving me a gift, great! I don’t need one, but please give the gift of water to somebody else that you don’t even know, maybe a mother who wants to give health and hope to her children, a grandfather who has never drunk clean water in his life. I hope you’ll join me in this effort, whether you have 31 cents to give, or $31 dollars, or more, every bit will help, and 100% of your donation will go directly to a water project that will give clean water to people in desperate need. I hope my birthday will make it possible for 31 people to have many more decades of birthdays to come.

Normally, I don’t go around shouting about my birthday. Once I past my mid-twenties, it didn’t seem as though my birthday mattered as much anymore. I was just grateful to be alive. Of course it felt great to be celebrated by my family and close friends, and to receive well wishes, but I am learning that it feels even more satisfying and soul fulfilling to make celebrations possible for others. So, I’m changing it up this year! I’m going to shout about my 31st birthday, September 16th from the rooftops so that together, we can make more birthdays possible for 31 people. This episode of the Making Hope Podcast was inspired by this episode of the Rich Roll Podcast:


I highly recommend it. You’ll get to hear Scott Harrison’s life story, and how he created the organization Charity: Water, and how you can make it possible for others to have clean water.

Give someone the gift of clean water for my 31st birthday HERE!

It’s so easy! You can used PayPal, credit or debit. Thank you in advance for making hope for 31 people in honor of my birth and life!


I have just made the first donation of $31 to this campaign (in the place of a birthday present I probably would have bought for myself 😉

Links and Resources from this Episode:

Charity: Water


Please share this. Share it with even just one person, or better yet, with everyone you know! Let’s spread the word and make some hope!

P.S. I’m so sorry about the poor sound quality of my podcast recordings. I’m doing these on the fly, whenever I can get a spare moment alone (which isn’t often with a 5 year old and a 10 month old with me full-time). My oldest son starts school in 2 weeks, so the rhythm of our life is about to change drastically! And hopefully, so will the quality of the technical aspects of the podcast!

Ensure Clean Water for You and Your Family in Any Event – Episode 005

August 7, 2017

Water is the most crucial life sustaining resource, yet how many of us just take it for granted? In this episode, we discuss what happened to the people of Flint, Michigan, and how you and I can be prepared for such an event. We review some very easy options to ensure that you and your family have access to clean water no matter what.

I live in the Detroit Metro Area in Michigan (USA), the water crisis of Flint, Michigan literally hits close to home (an hour away from my home in fact). The 2 short videos and the articles below will give you a good overview of what happened in Flint, and what is still going on. Thousands of Flint citizens have been poisoned. Many children especially have suffered bone and brain damage from lead poisoning.

NRDC Info. on Flint Water Crisis

NPR: Lead Laced Water in Flint; A Step by Step Look at the Makings of a Crisis

CNN: Flint Water Crisis Fast Facts

This is a fascinating 48 minute documentary called “The Murky Waters of Flint” if you’d like to learn more.

Here is what you can do to ensure this doesn’t happen to you or your family. Ensure that you’ll have clean water no matter what.

The Berkey Water Filter

The following information can all be found at www.berkeyfilters.com


“Berkey water filters provide the ultimate in waterborne contamination removal.  They are used worldwide to set the international standard for water filters used in clean or hostile filtration environments. Owning a Berkey Water Filter gives you the ability to utilize almost any outside natural water source and transform it into the best tasting, purest drinking water possible.  All while using a natural method without the use of chemicals or complicated processes.”

“The Berkey water filter system is so powerful it is classified as a purifier. This classification shows that we far exceed the abilities of the standard water filter. The portable Berkey can be used to filter non-potable or unhealthy water in situations where electricity and pressure are not available. For normal everyday water from your faucet or for challenging environments like wells, rivers, and lakes, Berkey is the most flexible and adaptable filtering system available. Berkey water costs just 1.7 cents per gallon to produce. The cleanable Black Berkey replacement filters provide an economical, reliable and powerful long-term solution to poor water quality issues that cannot be equaled. Our most popular model, the Big Berkey has a long-standing reputation for quality and service.  This reputation is the reason we are trusted around the world by numerous international relief organizations to provide clean emergency drinking water to workers and citizens during times of crisis or natural disaster.”

The Berkey Water Filter System is Revolutionary

“Through diligent testing and research, we have proven that Berkey water filters remove viruses to purification standards, pathogenic bacteria, cysts and parasites to non-detectable levels, and harmful or unwanted chemicals to below detectable levels. Until these test results were made public, words like non-detectable were seldom if ever used to describe the abilities of a water filter to remove harmful pollutants. The filters in the Berkey system not only took the industry by storm with these unheard of benefits but also added the ability to reduce toxic heavy metals such as lead and mercury without removing the beneficial and nutritional minerals needed to support a healthy body and mind. Review and compare the ability of the unique Berkey Water Filter to Brita, Aquasana, Pur, Katadyn or bottled water and see for yourself what we have to offer and why we dominate the portable water filter industry.”

“Below is a chart to compare the Berkey Water Filter System to our competition in the portable water filter industry.”

[Portable Water Filter Comparison Chart on Web page]

* Information not published

ELEMENT RATING Purifier Filter Filter Filter Filter Filter
BASE SYSTEM COST $258 $139 $399 $239 $229 $219.95
BASE DAILY OUTPUT (GPD) 84 10 18 9 14 24
MAX DAILY OUTPUT  (GPD) 168 25 18 18.5 20 24
PEOPLE SERVED     [B] 16 6 5 4 5 6
MAXIMUM GALLONS PER FILTER 3000 535 535 1500 535 730
REPLACEMENT TIME LIMIT No time limit 6 mo. 2 year 12 mo. 6 Mo. 6 Mo.
PRICE OF ELEMENTS (EACH) $54.50 $30 $36 $49.50 $36 $56
APPROX. COST PER GALLON 1.8 Cents 5.6 6.7 3.3 6.7 7.6
FOOD COLOR TEST              [I] Pass Fail Fail Pass Fail Fail
TURBIDITY FLOW RATE TEST[J] Pass Pass Pass Pass Pass Pass
GUARANTEE 6 MO./ 2Yr * 1 Year 2 Year * *
SYSTEM COST W/MAX ELEMENTS $363 $274 $399 $338 $319.99 $219.95
SYSTEM MATERIAL AISI Stainless HDPE Ceramic Stainless AISI Stainless Silicone

* Information not published

 Household Water Filters

Below is a chart that compares the Berkey Water Filter to other commercially available household water filters.

 MODEL Big Berkey AQ-4000 Faucet Filter SY-2300 H-54 Plus FM-3000
RETAIL PRICE $258 $99  $34.95  $159.95 $359.99 $49.99
REPLACEMENT FILTER COST $107 $48 $20 $50.39 $100.99 $20
PER GALLON “COST OF USE” 1.6 cents 9.6 20 10 13.5 20
Filters last  (gallons)  6000  500  100  500  750  100
TOTAL COST FOR 6000 GALLONS $258 $627 $1214 $710 $904 $1229
REMOVES CHLORINE YES >99.999%  YES 99% YES 99% YES 97% YES 88% YES 98%
REMOVES LEAD YES 96% YES >99% YES 99% YES 95% YES 98% YES 96%
REMOVAL OF THM’s YES >99.999% YES>99% NO YES 95% NO NO
REMOVES ATRIZINE YES >99.999% YES>97% YES 92% YES 97% NO YES 96%
REMOVES TCE YES >99.999% YES>99% YES 99% YES 99% NO NO
REMOVES FLUORIDE YES With the add on  Berkey PF-2  * * * * YES

Charts from https://www.berkeyfilters.com/berkey-answers/performance/water-filter-comparison/


Berkey Sport Bottle


Product Review: The Berkey Portable Water Purifier


LifeStraw $19.95 on Amazon Prime

LifeStraw Steel $42.34 on Amazon Prime

(Photo and Table Credit https://www.amazon.com/LifeStraw-LSPHF017-Personal-Water-Filter/dp/B006QF3TW4)

  LifeStraw Filter LifeStraw Steel
Applications Running, Hiking, Survival Travel, Hiking, Survival
What it Removes? Bacteria and Protozoa Bacteria and Protozoa; Reduces chemicals, heavy metals, pesticides, herbicides, odor and bad taste
Filter Capacity 1,000 Liters (264 Gallons) Main Filter: 1,000 Liters (264 Gallons); Replaceable Carbon Filter: 100 Liters (26.5 Gallons)
Filter Micron Size 0.2 Micron 0.2 Micron
Weight 2.0 oz (55 grams) 4.2 oz (118 grams)
Flow Rate 1.7L (57 oz) / minute 1.7L (57 oz) / minute
Filter Type Hollow Fiber Membrane Hollow Fiber Membrane and Replaceable Carbon Filter

Seychelle Water Filter Bottle with 2 Filters

“This advanced bottle removes up to 99.99 percent of pollutants and contaminants found in drinking water. Produces up to 100 gallons of filtered water. Kit contains one 28-ounce water bottle and two filters. Bottle includes an insulator sleeve and clip.” (Credit: https://store.lds.org/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/Product3_715839595_10557_3074457345616706370_-1__196989)

Clean Water = Life —> Watch This. You’ll Be Glad You Did. I Promise.

August 3, 2017

Do you need some inspiration? Empathy? Hope? Understanding? Joy? Empowerment? Motivation? Happiness? If you do, (and even if you don’t think you do) Watch This. You’ll Be Glad You Did. I Promise. It will only take 20 minutes, less than the time it takes to watch an episode of a show that doesn’t make you feel good or be a better person. But this will. Please watch!


Rachel’s Gift Gives More Than 60,000 People Clean Water – Children Can Make Hope!

August 2, 2017

Oh, please watch this 5 minute video! It is a miracle and an absolute joy to see the goodness that can come even out of sorrow. This makes me so happy! This is a preview of what my podcast this week will be about. 😉

~ Now get out there, and make some hope!

<3 Emily